Never Been on a Cruise? First Time Cruise Tips You’ll Wish You Knew Before Booking
If you have never been on a cruise before, you might wonder what all the fuss is about.
Perhaps you assume cruising is expensive, formal or confusing. Maybe you think it is only for older travellers or people who already know exactly what they are doing.
You may be surprised.
A cruise can be relaxed, sociable, family-friendly and incredibly easy. You unpack once, wake up somewhere new and have your accommodation, meals and entertainment travelling with you.
The trick is choosing the right cruise.
There are huge differences between cruise lines, ships, cabins, dining options and itineraries. That is why first time cruise tips should start with something more important than price.
They should start with you.
What sort of holiday do you actually enjoy?
First Time Cruise Tips: Is Cruising Really For You?
One of the biggest misconceptions about cruising is that there is one standard cruise experience.
There isn't.
A traditional sailing with Cunard can feel very different from a family cruise with Disney. A Marella All Inclusive cruise can feel very different from a large MSC ship packed with activities. P&O Cruises offers another style again.
So, if you have never cruised before, you do not need to know which cruise line you prefer.
That is part of what your travel consultant can help you work out.
You can start with the things you already know about yourself.
Do you love good food?
Do you want plenty to do?
Would you prefer a quieter ship?
Are you travelling with children?
Do you want to dress up?
Would you rather have everything included?
Do you want lots of ports, or would you enjoy lazy days at sea?
These answers can tell you far more than a search for the cheapest cruise.
Which Cruise Line Might Suit You?
Choosing your cruise line is one of the most important decisions you will make.
Two cruises can visit similar destinations and still feel completely different onboard.
Here are a few examples to show you just how much choice there is.
Cunard for classic cruising and a sense of occasion
If you have always imagined cruising as elegant dining, afternoon tea and dressing up for a special evening, Cunard may be the cruise line that springs to mind.
Cunard has a strong sense of tradition and occasion. During the day, the atmosphere is relaxed, while evenings can bring a smarter dress code and Gala Evenings.
That does not mean you need formalwear every night.
There are relaxed dining and entertainment options too.
Cunard can be particularly appealing if the ship itself is an important part of your holiday.
For a special anniversary, milestone birthday or romantic escape, the atmosphere may be exactly what you are looking for.
Queen Mary 2 also has a particularly distinctive identity as an ocean liner, while the other ships in the fleet each have their own character and features.
P&O Cruises for a familiar British cruising experience
P&O Cruises is another option that many British first-time cruisers consider.
There is a choice of dining styles, entertainment and onboard activities, while the dress code varies between Evening Casual and Black Tie evenings.
You do not need to spend your entire cruise in formal clothes.
During the day, normal holiday clothing is fine. On Black Tie evenings, guests can dress up if they want to enjoy the occasion.
There are also venues where the evening dress code does not apply, depending on the ship.
If you like the idea of a cruise with a familiar British feel and plenty of choice, P&O Cruises could be worth exploring.
Marella for All Inclusive simplicity
If the thought of constantly adding up the cost of drinks, meals and tips makes you nervous, Marella is worth a look.
Marella Cruises are All Inclusive as standard, with meals, snacks, selected drinks and tips included.
Depending on the holiday package, flights and transfers can also be included.
That can make budgeting much simpler.
Marella also offers family-friendly cruises alongside adults-only options.
For someone who wants a straightforward holiday without worrying too much about onboard extras, that can be appealing.
MSC Cruises for families and plenty to do
MSC Cruises is worth considering if you like the sound of a larger ship with lots happening onboard.
Families have access to dedicated kids' clubs covering different age groups, alongside activities and entertainment.
There is also a wide choice of dining, with main restaurants and buffets included in the cruise fare and speciality restaurants available separately.
That can work well for families who want everyone to have plenty of choice.
Children can have their own activities while adults enjoy some time to themselves.
Disney Cruise Line for family holidays with a difference
Disney Cruise Line is an obvious option for families who love Disney, but it is worth knowing that the experience is not simply about entertaining young children.
Disney ships offer family entertainment alongside areas, dining and activities designed for adults.
That means parents can enjoy the Disney experience with their children while still having opportunities to relax and enjoy some adult time.
Disney Cruise Line is also bringing Disney Wish to the UK for the first time in summer 2027, with departures from Southampton on European itineraries.
So which cruise line is right for you?
These are only a few examples.
There are many other cruise lines and ships to consider.
The important point is that there is no single version of cruising.
You might want:
• A traditional and elegant experience
• A relaxed British-style cruise
• All Inclusive simplicity
• A ship packed with activities
• A family-focused holiday
• An adults-only escape
• A special occasion cruise
• A quieter sailing with more emphasis on the destinations
That is why choosing a cruise based purely on the lowest price can be misleading.
The ship matters.
The atmosphere matters.
And the people travelling with you matter too.
What Actually Happens When You Arrive At The Port?
This is one of the biggest worries for first-time cruisers.
You arrive at the cruise terminal and suddenly there is a huge ship in front of you.
What happens next?
The process is usually much more organised than you might expect.
You will normally have an allocated arrival time. When you reach the terminal, your larger luggage is handed over to the port team.
You then go through the required check-in and security procedures before boarding.
Your larger cases will be taken to the ship and delivered to your cabin later.
Keep your hand luggage with you.
That is important.
You may not see your main suitcase for several hours, so keep anything you need for the afternoon in your smaller bag.
Think medication, passports, travel documents, phone, charger, sunglasses and perhaps swimwear.
Once you are checked in, you will board the ship and can start getting your bearings.
The first few hours can feel busy.
That is normal.
Give yourself time to explore.
You do not need to know where everything is immediately.
What Should You Pack For Your First Cruise?
Packing for a cruise is not as complicated as it first appears.
Think of it as packing for a holiday where you will have several different types of day.
You will need comfortable clothes for exploring ports, swimwear, casual clothes for daytime and something suitable for evenings.
Depending on your cruise line, you may also need something smarter.
Your basic packing list could include:
• Comfortable walking shoes
• Swimwear
• Casual daytime clothes
• Evening outfits
• A light jacket or cardigan
• Sun protection
• Sunglasses
• Toiletries
• Medication
• Phone and charger
• Travel documents
• A small day bag
• Any required formal or smart clothing
Check your cruise line's specific guidance before you travel.
The key is not to assume that every cruise line follows the same rules.
Choosing Your Cabin
Your cabin is another decision where price should not be your only consideration.
There are four main categories you are likely to come across.
Inside cabin
An inside cabin has no window.
It is often one of the more affordable choices.
If you mainly use your cabin to sleep, shower and change, it can be a sensible option.
It is also very dark.
That can be a bonus if you are a good sleeper.
Ocean view cabin
An ocean view cabin gives you natural light and a view through a window.
The exact size and style of the window will depend on the ship and cabin category.
For a first cruise, it can offer a nice balance between price and having some connection to the outside world.
Balcony cabin
A balcony gives you your own outdoor space.
Imagine opening the curtains in the morning and seeing the sea.
You can sit outside with a coffee, enjoy the view while sailing or have some quiet time away from the busier areas of the ship.
It does cost more.
Whether it is worth the extra depends on how you like to holiday.
Suite
Suites generally offer more space and may include additional benefits depending on the cruise line and specific category.
They can be particularly appealing for honeymoons, milestone celebrations or anyone who wants more room.
There is no universally correct cabin.
The right one depends on your budget, itinerary and how much time you expect to spend there.
What Happens With Meals?
Food is a major part of cruising.
Your cruise fare will usually include several dining options, although exactly what is included varies between cruise lines.
You may have a main dining restaurant, buffet, casual venues and other included options.
Speciality restaurants may cost extra.
This gives you flexibility.
You could enjoy a leisurely meal in the main restaurant one evening, grab something casual the next and book a speciality restaurant for a special occasion.
You do not have to eat the same way every day.
That is part of the fun.
Do You Need A Dining Package?
Not necessarily.
Dining packages can be useful if you want to visit several speciality restaurants, but they are not essential for enjoying a cruise.
Look at what is already included before adding anything.
The same applies to drinks packages.
Some cruise lines offer packages covering different combinations of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks.
The value depends on what you actually drink.
If you have two coffees and a glass of wine each day, your needs will be very different from someone who enjoys several drinks throughout the day.
Read the terms carefully.
That is where having someone explain the options can save you from paying for extras you do not need.
Sea Days Versus Port Days
A cruise is not simply a way of travelling from one port to another.
Some of your favourite days may actually be spent at sea.
A sea day gives you time to enjoy the ship.
You might have a slow breakfast, use the pool, join a quiz, book a spa treatment, attend a fitness class or simply sit somewhere quiet with a book.
You do not have to be busy.
Port days are different.
You have the opportunity to explore somewhere new.
That might mean a guided excursion, a private tour or simply getting off the ship and exploring independently.
Think about this when choosing your itinerary.
If you love sightseeing, an itinerary with lots of ports could suit you.
If you want a relaxing break, you may enjoy having more sea days.
Should You Book Excursions Through The Cruise Line?
You generally have two choices.
You can book an excursion through the cruise line or arrange something independently.
Cruise line excursions can be convenient.
Transport is usually organised and the excursion is planned around the ship's timetable.
For a first-time cruiser, that can provide reassurance.
Independent excursions can give you more flexibility.
You may be able to choose a smaller group or create a more personal experience.
The trade-off is that you need to manage your own timings carefully.
The ship will not wait indefinitely for late passengers returning from an independent excursion.
For your first cruise, you might choose a mixture.
There is no need to book an excursion at every port.
Sometimes the best plan is simply to wander.
What If I Get Seasick?
This is probably one of the most common concerns about cruising.
Modern cruise ships are designed with stabilisation systems, although some movement can still be noticeable.
If you know you are prone to motion sickness, think about your cabin location.
A cabin towards the middle of the ship and on a lower deck can feel more stable than one at the very front or back.
You can also spend time outside, look towards the horizon and stay hydrated.
If you are concerned about seasickness, speak to your pharmacist or medical professional before travelling about suitable options for you.
Do not let the fear of seasickness automatically rule out cruising.
It is something you can plan for.
What Happens To Your Luggage?
Your larger luggage is usually handed over when you arrive at the terminal.
It is then taken onboard and delivered to your cabin.
That means you should keep essentials with you.
A small hand luggage bag is ideal.
At the end of the cruise, there will usually be instructions for putting your cases outside your cabin before disembarkation.
Your cruise line will explain exactly what to do.
Follow the instructions and it should be straightforward.
Wi-Fi And Mobile Phones At Sea
This is something you should understand before you sail.
Your normal mobile phone connection may not work in the same way when you are at sea.
Maritime networks can result in additional charges, depending on your mobile provider and package.
Do not assume your usual mobile data will simply work.
Cruise ships also offer Wi-Fi packages.
These vary between cruise lines and ships, with different levels depending on whether you want basic messaging, browsing or heavier internet use.
If you do not need to be online constantly, you may decide to use the cruise as an opportunity to switch off.
That can be rather nice.
What About Tipping And Gratuities?
Cruise gratuities can be confusing because different cruise lines handle them differently.
Some add a daily gratuity to your onboard account.
Others may include certain gratuities within the cruise fare or offer different arrangements.
Always check the specific terms of the cruise you are booking.
Do not assume the system is the same across every cruise line.
This is one of those small details that is much easier to understand before you travel.
Do You Really Need Formalwear?
The short answer is no.
You do not need a suitcase full of formal clothes just because you are going on a cruise.
The longer answer is that it depends on your cruise line.
Cunard has Gala Evenings and a stronger emphasis on smart evening attire.
P&O Cruises has Black Tie evenings alongside Evening Casual nights.
Other cruise lines may have a much more relaxed approach.
This is why it is better to choose your cruise first and then pack according to that cruise line's guidance.
You do not need to buy a completely new wardrobe.
Who Does Cruising Suit?
The great thing about cruising is the range of people it can suit.
Couples
You can spend the day together exploring a destination, enjoy dinner in the evening and still have plenty of options for entertainment.
A balcony cabin can also give you a private space to relax.
Honeymooners
Cruising can be an appealing honeymoon option because you can visit several destinations without repeatedly packing and unpacking.
You can also choose a ship where the onboard experience is part of the celebration.
Families
Family-friendly ships can offer activities and entertainment for different ages.
That means parents can enjoy some time together while children have their own activities.
Multigenerational families
This is one area where cruising can work particularly well.
Grandparents, parents and children can all travel together without having to spend every moment together.
One person can enjoy the spa.
Another can go to the pool.
Someone else can head off on an excursion.
Then everyone can meet for dinner.
That flexibility can make a big difference.
What You Do Not Need To Worry About
If you have never cruised before, it is easy to create a huge list of things that could go wrong.
You really do not need to know everything before you board.
You do not need to know the ship layout.
You do not need to attend every activity.
You do not need to book an excursion in every port.
You do not need to eat in a speciality restaurant every night.
You do not need to dress formally every evening.
You do not need to be an experienced traveller.
And you certainly do not need to know exactly what type of cruise you like before your first one.
How could you?
You have never been.
That is where good advice can be so useful.
Rebecca Jane Travel Says
“The biggest mistake first-time cruisers make is choosing a cruise based purely on price. The ship, cabin, itinerary, dining and atmosphere can make two seemingly similar cruises feel completely different.”
I think this is one of the most important things to understand before booking your first cruise.
You may not know whether you prefer a large ship or a smaller one.
You may not know whether you would enjoy lots of port days or lazy afternoons at sea.
You may not know whether you would love having a balcony.
You may not know whether you want formal evenings or prefer to keep everything relaxed.
You do not need to know.
My role as an Independent Travel Consultant is to help you work through those questions.
Rather than simply finding the cheapest available cruise, I can help you look at the bigger picture.
That means considering the ship, the itinerary, the cabin, dining, atmosphere, inclusions and the people travelling with you.
Because the cheapest cruise is not necessarily the best-value holiday for you.
Your First Cruise Does Not Have To Be Complicated
Cruising can look complicated from the outside.
There are ships, cabins, dining options, drinks packages, excursions, gratuities and dress codes to think about.
Once you understand how it all works, it becomes much easier.
The most important thing is choosing the right cruise for you.
Not the cheapest one.
Not the one with the biggest discount.
Not simply the one that happens to visit the destination you searched for first.
The right cruise brings the whole experience together.
And that is where personalised travel advice can make a real difference.
If you are thinking about trying a cruise for the first time, I would love to help you explore the options without the jargon or guesswork.
You can talk through what you like, what you do not like and what you want from your holiday. From there, we can look at the cruise lines and ships that could suit you.
Your first cruise should feel like a holiday, not a research project.
Rebecca Jane Travel is an Independent Travel Consultant with Jamie Wake Travel and has access to a wide range of suppliers and tour operators. I offer a personal travel service and can tailor holidays to suit individual needs.
A an Independent Travel Consultant with Jamie Wake Travel I benefit from membership of Protected Trust Services and Jamie Wake Travel’s ATOL Licence.
All tailor-made holidays include Supplier Failure Insurance and Scheduled Airline Failure Insurance.
If you are ready to find out whether cruising could be right for you, get in touch with Rebecca Jane Travel.
07368 931424
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